Tip for the non-ADHD folks who have friend-groups containing large numbers of ADHD folks:
If your feelings are hurt because you feel you've been talked over or ignored or something like that, you need to *tell us*.
There are often things we do unknowingly that can make a person feel unheard or disrespected. We wish it was different. We try to make it different (we're almost all trying to learn not to interrupt), but frequently we depend on being made aware that there is a problem.
I think a general rule of thumb for maintaining positive relationships with ADHD people is that if you have a problem with something we do, you need to be direct because the chances that we are not aware that we're doing the thing or we are not aware that the thing is affecting you are pretty high.
We work really hard at being aware of ourselves and the people around us, but it is *work*. When we're just relaxing and having fun, we may especially be likely to not notice.
Not noticing and not caring are not the same thing, especially when your attention is an unruly little bastard that does what it wants.