It must be sad to be so insecure that you feel threatened when people ask you to refer to them by preferred #pronouns . personally, I don't feel the need to ask this. I'm a boring and fairly obviously #cis #heterosexual man but if someone wishes to talk about me as they, them, she, her or even it and its, well okay then.
But if anyone asks me to use particular pronouns to refer to them, I will do so. Geez it's just basic empathy. It means a lot to them. Respect that. Why must that be explained?