Yeah... I haven't done the BDSM thing with any degree of seriousness but I'm pretty sure you're not supposed to a) unilaterally decide that someone is your sub, b) lecture them about how they need tp pull their socks up and sort their life out, and c) threaten to kill them if they don't. #amreading
That's what... a struggle session combined with an intervention and a sexual assault?
@Taskerland you left out #parenting there